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Linda Hamilton's avatar

This is absolutely on point! I also think that the church’s overall handling of pornography use is pretty bad. They throw “addiction” around liberally, often making men believe they are addicts when they aren’t.

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Jamee Andelin's avatar

Wow. Cynthia. You have done such a great job at shinging a light on how loaded this topic is. I’m also rolling my eyes at the organization of the church for who they proclaim to be and how they are not aligned with true integrity. This line really hit me today, because someone finally said it out loud:

“In my anecdotal experience, most of the time there are zero consequences to porn users, like being released from callings or losing temple recommends. If anything, men are told to go to the temple more because it will help them stop. Yet other Latter-day Saints are denied access to the temple all the time for reasons such as advocacy for LGBTQ+ people, or paying tithing to charities instead of the church organization. We need to stop our pretense of purity and worthiness and admit the threshold to enter the temple is about loyalty to an organization.”

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