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Colleen, thank you so much for writing and sharing this. I support you 1000% in your assertions that polygamy still taints our experiences and needs to be grappled with. Here is something I wrote recently in a post to be published in Oct.: "The emotional detachment, hubris, and abuses of power that Joseph modeled foster the same vices in our leaders’ approaches and policies to this day. The fallout of polygamy goes far beyond plural marriage proper (which lives on in our scriptural canon and sealing policies). It has made our Church rigid, biased, overconfident and anxious about sex, marriage, and gender roles, priesthood authority over members, and the treatment of those who are sexually different. When will our leaders’ bubble of apathy and arrogance toward the suffering of women, marginalized groups, and lay members burst? When will women and men and leaders and members come to sit side by side as equals, having moved past the fantasies and threats of polygamy toward partnership and reciprocity?"

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I also had an experience receiving personal revelation that polygamy never came from God. This happened 3 years ago when I was 37 years old. After decades of praying for helping feeling better about polygamy and the trauma and existential dread it caused me, I finally told God I was done. I would never be open to this being inspired again. A powerful experience with God that I did not expect followed.

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