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Emily Butler's avatar

I made a lot of progress as an adult on understanding introversion and how much that had shaped my experience of church and family life growing up, but I feel like a thing I have really struggled with in the last several years is how much it bugs me when people don't notice things that seem really fundamental and important to me. It was really helpful to think of it in terms of introversion, that perhaps introverts are more inclined this way, and that this might give me a way of understanding some of what's going on when other people just seem oblivious to things that I cannot believe they didn't notice immediately. So, thanks, as always, for saying it!

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Karla Autrey's avatar

Thank you for this episode. Susan, I understand your preparing the dinner all by yourself for your ward. I done things like that too rather than asking for help and being rebuffed.

This podcast explained why I’ve felt so uncomfortable at Church.

I arrive at meetings as they start or a little after so I avoid feeling this way.

If I have a job—something to do—it makes a difference. But volunteering to help doesn’t always work because the same people are always chosen to help They know each other and I feel left out.

I feel so much better about being outside the inner circle.

Thank you.

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