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I really appreciate what these authors are trying to do, but you lost me with the boy-mom vs girl-mom comment - it sort of contradicted the whole message. It was just a small thing but girl-mom, boy-mom narrative is problematic in that it reinforces the very things the whole discussion is trying to improve or eliminate. At the very core of this comment is the idea and strong social narrative of what it means to be a boy or a girl, a parent of one gender or another. That for some reason you might think you are better suited to be a parent of boys over girls, or vice-versa, but what does that even mean? What is really being communicated in that comment? I'm athletic and love lifting weights and watching football... does that mean I am better suited to have sons? Hogwash. I'm not trying to be a nuisance here, but I just needed to say that comments like this only build on the problematic narrative we are working to improve. Let's all be more aware of our blind spots that show through when we make comments that capture our own social and gender biases.

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