Episode 202: Who Deserves to Hear My Story?

When things start to shift around our faith, the need to tell people about the change can feel overwhelming. There are all kinds of reasons people want to share—it can feel isolating to carry such big thoughts, feelings, and experiences alone. But depending on the circumstances, spilling the details of your evolving faith can have all kinds of consequences. In Episode 202, Susan and Cynthia discuss the question, “Who deserves to hear my story?”

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Notes & Quotes:

ALSSI Ep. 42, When the Wheels Come Off | A Conversation with Jeralee Renshaw
Don’t Seek Answers From Those Not Asking Your Questions, by Jody England Hansen, Exponent II, 9/29/2023
Living on the Inside of the Edge: A Survival Guide, by Christian Kimball
We are hardwired for belonging, Brene Brown
Atlas of the Heart: Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience, by Brene Brown
How Can I Talk With My Spouse About My Faith Transition?, Ask Dr. Julie Hanks podcast, 12/27/2021

“I have noticed that when people share experiences of being called to leadership positions at all levels, they never say they were asked about their knowledge of church history, complexity of sacred text, stages of emotional development, understanding of faith journeys, mental or emotional healthcare, women’s healthcare, budgeting of finances or time, gender issues, sexual development, or even if they think the opinions of current church leaders are more important than the teachings of Christ.” —Jody England Hansen

“Belonging is a practice that requires us to be vulnerable, get uncomfortable, and learn how to be present with people without sacrificing who we are.” —Brene Brown

“Because true belonging only happens when we present our authentic, imperfect selves to the world, our sense of belonging can never be greater than our level of self acceptance.” —Brene Brown

“Our collective stories and experiences can be the greatest textbooks of life. But with every shameful story stuffed away, we bypass the chance to expand and connect — a missed opportunity slipped through our fingers.” —Kristen Noel

 “Belonging is being part of something bigger than yourself. But it’s also the courage to stand alone, and to belong to yourself above all else.” —Brene Brown

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